This is the same of any high-value guy. He makes sure she is safe and protected. He’s conscious and aware that his thoughts create his reality. Most of the traits listed above, i found it on my boyfriend <3 This is very accurate! A better way to say it is he wants to be there for you. He is comfortable with commitment; values loyalty and knows if it’s a match, he’ll commit fully. His goal is to reach an agreement. Quick tip: you might want to proofread :) However, if a man continually exhibits two or more of these signs, then it could indicate a chronic problem of being low value. I can’t get enough of y’all Oh my, I really am in trouble. Plus, you cobfirmed what I knew but just wouldn’t accept early on. So my question is:Do you think that a high value man would be attracted to a high value woman, who is not that successful at the moment at her work for example, but she has passion to develop. In short, the high-value guy lives to see you playing at an extraordinary level. Be warned: high-value guys have high expectations. Do it without aniexty. When I list the following 20 traits of a high value man, I’m simply reporting what women want. My standards just went up 500%. On the contrary, he loves to see you flourish. A high value man knows how master his mind moment to moment. “Hi beautiful. He subscribes to Men’s Health, GQ or Esquire and then knows how to recreate the top designer looks for less. All of his man-hair is plucked, shaved and trimmed. Such a man would litteraly make me melt & be so happy! So i am not alone in this! He said it’s not me but he has issues and when he gets close to anyone he wants run. thanks Stephen! I don’t want to patronize anyone here by assuming you don’t know a good guy from a creep or a selfish a**hole when you see one. And despite what some people are saying, these guys really do exist! A man with a good, sustainable job Keeping a man sounds like so much work, maybe that’s why I am still alone. Well i know a man who has all these above described qualities. Thank you for taking time to write this lovely blog! I would say a guy who doesn’t have these things would cause more pain than anything because these things really are pretty basic and essential for a healthy, mature guy. “Here, drink some water.” He wants to show her he has her back and isn’t going to let the partying get out of control. Most guys out there also possess the ability to meet all of these qualities, but you may not always meet them at the right point in life. Exactly, He is strong in himself, he will communicate respectfully, he is not afraid he will “damage the relationship” as what kind of relationship is it if you can’t talk. If the date involves activities, he tells the woman to pack a bag with workout clothes, sneakers, a dress, and shorts whatever she’ll need. A high value man cares about whom he’s spending time with and he wants to have phone conversations to see if the woman is on his level. After reading this I thought wow! Ive just had a complete break through. The best people always embody both sides of the coin. The first thought that comes to mind when reading this article is ‘How to find such a guy?’ These guys, of course, exist. He might not like the “damsel in constant distress”, but the “damsel having an occasional freak out” will make him drive all night like a knight riding to save a princess. But he did not have some of the base qualities. You need help with your university paper and want someone to come and read it at 4am the night before submission? That sometimes make my day. I’d add that women can help by being calm and providing a safe space for men to speak their truth. Note, depending on his personality he may already be feeling all those things that make it more, he may just not care about societies labels. So that he would be curious about trying for example tantra instead of laughing about it if he doesn’t even know what it is! In the past, I have not dated or sought out high value men. He trusts me and I trust him, we understand each other, we’re close and talk about very personal things with one another that we don’t tell other people, and he is a friend with benefits. I agree with what Ariana said in regards to how crucial and significant the article is, I am marking it too. A high value man knows he’s a fun person to be around. How do we give value to others? It may not be obvious, or even on the outside. This shows courage and a real man, in my opinion. He calls and doesn’t rely solely on text. And sometimes they may only be the high value man, for the right high value woman. 1) graduate or professional degree from a top school (like if he was a lawyer he would have to have gone somewhere that Big Law recruits from.) Unfortunately we have been done for almost 2 weeks thats why the pain is still here with me. So i prefer to stay alone than being hurt… After knowing someone for only a month it is impossible to know if he’s a high value man yet. This is a man with a full life with many experiences to draw upon which makes conversation with this guy interesting. thanks, Hi Salma! Does it lower the value of the guy ? If he likes her, he’s not wasting any time. He wants to know what she reads, what her fears are, who helped her in a time of crisis, who she’s helped, what her dreams are. Thank you ( : Thanks for the post! Keep it coming In other words, obviously high value men are usually very successful in their area of work, so do you think that it is necessary the woman to be that successful like them to be noticed and do you think that a high value man can notice that high value woman, who is not at his circles or who is not at his league, or who is not that successful in business or personal life at the moment, but she strives to be. 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